Slaughterville, Oklahoma – Jessie Toumbs, a resident of Slaughterville and a dedicated Fraud Analyst at Arvest Bank, has tragically passed away, leaving behind a legacy of warmth and kindness that touched many lives. Jessie, originally from Great Bend, Kansas, was deeply loved by his friends, family, and colleagues. His death, which occurred unexpectedly, has left the community heartbroken.
Jessie’s presence in both his personal and professional life was marked by generosity and dedication. His colleagues and friends remember him as a bright light, someone whose spirit brought joy to those around him.
Jessie was known for his thoughtfulness, a trait exemplified by a memorable moment when he took a friend and her son to their first Boston Celtics game. That act of kindness is one of many cherished memories that will live on in the hearts of those who knew him.
On social media, many friends expressed their grief and shared memories of Jessie, affectionately known as "Toumbsie" to some. Anna Franklin posted, “Man. Only the good die young. Heartbroken to hear the news that a bright light has gone out. Cheering with Jessie Toumbs in high school & in college was nothing short of a blast. Fly high, Toumbsie.”
Jenn Whitten wrote, “This breaks me! So many great memories!” while Kass Nicole echoed the shock, stating, “Omgosh noooo! I’m speechless!”
Other posts reflected the deep loss felt by the community. Susan Parisi shared, “I am broken hearted. May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her and may God’s light shine upon her eternally!” Lizzie Cahill Jeffrey also expressed her sadness, recalling how Jessie was the first person to welcome her to Wilburton, and describing her as “a ray of sunshine.”
The news of Jessie’s passing was shared by his sister, Tiffany, leaving many stunned by the suddenness of the loss. His son, Crawford, along with his family and friends, are in the thoughts and prayers of the community.
Jessie’s memory will live on through the many lives he touched, and his passing serves as a reminder of the profound impact one person can have on others. His spirit of kindness, generosity, and warmth will forever be cherished by those who knew him.